Building Safer Social Circles

    When sexual harm shatters a friend's world,will you freeze up or show up?(Most people freeze)

    Take the 2-minute quiz that reveals your superpower -your natural way of supporting others- before a crisis hits.

    Quick quiz. Natural support. Your genuine superpower.
    Our support scripts & safety plans cover:
    harassmentstalkingassaultany crisis moment

    For every moment a friend feels violated.

    GROWING NEED

    The Support Gap is REAL

    From breakups to #metoo moments, those seeking support and those wanting to help are caught in a gap between silence and safety.

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    The Support Gap

    From daily stresses to serious life events, most people don't know what to say or do to help.

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    The Safety Question

    People often stay silent rather than risk rejection or judgment.

    The Critical Window

    How friends respond in key moments can determine whether a crisis haunts or heals.

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    The Burden Fear

    Many don't reach out fearing they'll be a burden to others when they need support most.

    The #WithYouToo App

    Three Pillars of Safety

    PEOPLE

    Build your trusted circle of friends who learn and grow together

    PACT

    Commit to being there for each other through calm and crisis

    PLAN

    Access safety toolkits and know how to support friends effectively

    Train with your crew in the calm. Trust your superpower in the crisis.

    When supporters know how to respond in a crisis, friends can find the safety they desperately need.

    Friends in crisis feel safe to reach out

    Safe friends respond with confidence

    Healing begins immediately

    Features

    Support Style Profile

    Know your superpower

    Discover if you're The Strategist, The Comforter, The Energizer, or The Advocate - and use your style to support others through both everyday moments and serious situations.

    Safe Friend Signal

    Show you're there to help

    Let friends know you're a safe person to turn to - whether they need a listening ear for daily stress or steady support during life's biggest challenges.

    Support Skills

    Build trust & confidence

    Learn practical ways to show up for friends in both small moments and significant life events, aligned with your natural support style.

    Support Scripts

    Find the right words

    Get guidance on what to say (and what not to say) when friends trust you with anything from daily worries to their deepest struggles.

    Early Voices, Big Impact

    Hear from our first community members who are helping shape the future of safe, connected, supportive social circles

    "This tool will be revolutionary in normalizing support and care before an incident has even taken place"

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    Ray E.

    Activist, Founder SAASA

    "I love this! 3Joannes is empowering individuals with an essential life skill that’s often overlooked but absolutely crucial for modern support and empathy."

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    Tracy D.

    CEO of Callisto, LCSW, GBV expert

    "Knowing my support style means I can show up confidently for the people I love instead of being afraid to show up at all."

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    Shannon P.

    Advocate, Co-Host of What They Don't Say podcast

    Safe Friend Signal

    Unlock Your Support Superpower

    Everyone supports differently. Be the safe person friends know they can turn to.

    After your quiz, you'll:

    Discover Your Style

    Get your personalized support style profile

    Early Access

    Join our exclusive beta tester community

    Shape the Future

    Help us refine features based on your feedback

    Only 50 spots left for early access beta testers!

    #WithYouToo

    Be The Safe Friend

    Show friends you're a safe person they can depend on

    Be recognized as someone friends can trust with tough moments

    Signal your readiness to help when friends need you most

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