When sexual harm shatters a friend's world,will you freeze up or show up?(Most people freeze)
Take the 2-minute quiz that reveals your superpower -your natural way of supporting others- before a crisis hits.
For every moment a friend feels violated.


The Support Gap is REAL
From breakups to #metoo moments, those seeking support and those wanting to help are caught in a gap between silence and safety.
The Support Gap
From daily stresses to serious life events, most people don't know what to say or do to help.
The Safety Question
People often stay silent rather than risk rejection or judgment.
The Critical Window
How friends respond in key moments can determine whether a crisis haunts or heals.
The Burden Fear
Many don't reach out fearing they'll be a burden to others when they need support most.
The #WithYouToo App
Three Pillars of Safety
PEOPLE
Build your trusted circle of friends who learn and grow together

PACT
Commit to being there for each other through calm and crisis

PLAN
Access safety toolkits and know how to support friends effectively

Train with your crew in the calm.
Trust your superpower in the crisis.
When supporters know how to respond in a crisis, friends can find the safety they desperately need.
Friends in crisis feel safe to reach out
Safe friends respond with confidence
Healing begins immediately
Features
Support Style Profile
Know your superpower
Discover if you're The Strategist, The Comforter, The Energizer, or The Advocate - and use your style to support others through both everyday moments and serious situations.
Safe Friend Signal
Show you're there to help
Let friends know you're a safe person to turn to - whether they need a listening ear for daily stress or steady support during life's biggest challenges.
Support Skills
Build trust & confidence
Learn practical ways to show up for friends in both small moments and significant life events, aligned with your natural support style.
Support Scripts
Find the right words
Get guidance on what to say (and what not to say) when friends trust you with anything from daily worries to their deepest struggles.
Early Voices, Big Impact
Hear from our first community members who are helping shape the future of safe, connected, supportive social circles
"This tool will be revolutionary in normalizing support and care before an incident has even taken place"
Ray E.
Activist, Founder SAASA
"I love this! 3Joannes is empowering individuals with an essential life skill that’s often overlooked but absolutely crucial for modern support and empathy."
Tracy D.
CEO of Callisto, LCSW, GBV expert
"Knowing my support style means I can show up confidently for the people I love instead of being afraid to show up at all."
Shannon P.
Advocate, Co-Host of What They Don't Say podcast
Unlock Your Support Superpower
Everyone supports differently. Be the safe person friends know they can turn to.
After your quiz, you'll:
Discover Your Style
Get your personalized support style profile
Early Access
Join our exclusive beta tester community
Shape the Future
Help us refine features based on your feedback
#WithYouToo
Be The Safe Friend
Show friends you're a safe person they can depend on
Be recognized as someone friends can trust with tough moments
Signal your readiness to help when friends need you most